Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

I have been with my current bf for about 2 years and I know he does care about me...but for the passed year he's become extremely obsessed with how I look. I feel like our relationship is almost based on it. I have to be tan all the time...I have to work out everyday (He gets mad if I skip a day)...I have to dress sexy all the time...wear my make up the way he likes it...do my hair the way he likes it...and always have my nails and toenails painted. On days I just wear a sweatshirt, he doesn't seem as happy with me or as "into" me. Also, he seems to really like it when other guys check me out/hit on me. The other day, he caught his best friend sending pictures of me from my bf's cell phone to his own (rather revealing pictures). And he seemed to actually enjoy the thought of it. Whenever guys leave comments on my facebook about how "hot I am," he enjoys it and feels complimented. Not that I'm not flattered, but shouldn't a guy NOT want other guys hitting on his gf? .....

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

hes a loser you are too if you dont dump him soon

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

Please dump him. You don't need that crap!

;o) Love who YOU are!

That is just crazy of him..

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

twat he is

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

thats a dangerous relationship........... get out while you can

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

Then he really does not like you for you now does he? Get a new boyfriend.

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

wife swap

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

Find a man that appreciates your intelligence and you beauty. Ask yourself if you really want to be with this man that watched your figure and controls you for the rest of your life.

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

It sounds like he's rather possessive.I think you need to be looking for a new boyfriend.

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

Just be who you want to be ... not what he wants you to be.

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

Your boyfriend is a control freak and using you like a trophy.

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

Ok, I'm sorry to be so blunt, but the guys is a JERK! You need to seriously reevaulate why you're together. No relationship should ever be based on how good you look.

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

that just isnt right AT ALL

you need to get rid of this boy and find a boy that will value you for you regardless of how you wear your hair

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

You need to get rid of him. If he truly loved you for who you are than he wouldn't try so hard to change you. Get him a Barbie Doll, that sounds like what he wants.

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

Wow .. I don't know how you can stand it.

If any guy told me how to dress and look, it'd be over before he knew it.

I'd dump him

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

RUN RUN RUN as fast as you can

he is a control freak

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

Get a new man! He is a control freak who is probably going to start asking you to bang guys while he watches.

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

It's one thing to be proud of how your girl looks, but this guy is over board. If you are 119lbs you don't need to lose a thing except your boyfriend

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

I mean that is a certain line he shouldn't cross but. If a man cares about you he wants to make sure his girl looks good. So it actually makes me feel good when my fiance points out my flaws cause I can then change it and feel happy. As for him getting happy when other guys compliment you. For me it's not normal a guy should want to protect you and keep you for himself. But I don't how old you guys are so it could be a teen thing. If it continues just speak to him.

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

tell him you dress and look the way you want to, and if he don't like it then he can kiss your *** good by !

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

No this is not right! God, he is totally controlling you. I cant believe how shallow this guy is, i understand that he wants you to look nice but he has overstepped the mark. Put your foot down and get some control back.

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

It is not right. I love my gf and if another dude looks at her. I think if that is all fine I don't go about showing her off as if she truly was a trophy. And that is what I see here. You are no longer her girlfriend but a trophy. If he cannot see you as you want to be then he does not have the right to be with you.

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

What your boyfriend is doing to you isn't right, he is trying to control you and it sounds as if it is working. The more you allow him to do this, the worse it will get.

It also sounds like you are just a trophy to him. He doesn't care what you think, or how you feel, just how you look and what others think of you. My question to you is why are you still with this guy?

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

My feelings on this one depend on how old you are, which you don't say. If you are both 18, I wouldn't worry as much as if you were 40. This may just be standard immaturity on his part.

I would say something to him, though. The bottom line is that when two people love and respect each other, they won't engage in things that hurts the other one.

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

it isn't right he should like you for the way you arre ur not his personal barbie doll dump his ***

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

This guy has problems. My guy likes it when other people find me attractive but he certainly doesn't want them to see any provocative pictures of me or to come hit on me. That's plain weird.

Start dressing and looking the way YOU want to look. See how he reacts. If he's less attracted to you then I hate to tell you this, he's not into you but he's into his perfect vision of you. He's supposed to love you for who you are, not for who he wants you to be.

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

Your his trophy and he thinks you "belong" to him....

I'd put a stop to it now......Obssesive guys are dangerous.

He is obviously proud to be with you, But you need to draw the line.

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

it isn't a guy thing. he is trying to control you, mold you into something that you probably are not. his being okay with other guys looking at you is a bit weird at best. seems like he is more interested in himself, and how he is viewed, than he is into you and your feelings. stand back a bit, be yourself. don't let others control you.

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

Don't ever change yourself for someone else!!!

It sounds like he wants you as his trophy. For his own ego stroke. That is extremely unhealthy and I can't imagine you could ever be happy in a relationship like this. You need to be you. Be real. And real people wear sheatshirts some days. I think it's time you make him love you for you and not your looks. Talk to him. Tell him how you feel. And if he really cares about you he will love you regardless.

BTW we all get old someday. What is he going to do then?

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

well i think the reason he likes it when other guys say your hot and check you out and all that is because then he can be like ya shes all mine. i think that you sound like your healthy and yo shouldnt lose n e wait for him. good luck

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

don't allow yourself to get caught in this trap. He will dominate and control your life..he is already trying to do that. Please think more of yourself...this guy is a looser...don't let him ruin your life! Trust me...you'll feel bad for a couple of weeks...and then your life will seem like the sun just started to shine!

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

Don't let that loser control you.

Dump his sorry azz!

Boiis only.?

would you consider a girl with::

crystal blue eyes

dirty long blonde hair

straight teeth

5'3''

skinny

bigish boobs

good size butt

tan

hot?

pretty?

beautiful?

sexy?

fine?

Boiis only.?

Who wouldn't. BTW I think you mean long dirty blonde hair. I sure your hair isn't dirty.

Add smart and personable to the list and you've got a perfect woman, ;)

Boiis only.?

ugly and wit low self esteem if she gotta ask strangers

Boiis only.?

really depends on the face for me

AIM me and i'll tell you my screen name is - HLITEREC

or myspace - sruane@yahoo.com

i would say you soung gorgeous

Boiis only.?

Beautiful!!!!!!!

Boiis only.?

You could be any of those, but what about the inside? That would really make you hot!

Boiis only.?

duh, no.

Boiis only.?

I married her.....so to answer your question, hot pretty beautiful, and fine!!!!!!!

Boiis only.?

It all depends if she is legal or not.

Boiis only.?

i'd say she's hot but not my type

Boiis only.?

Good God, you sound smokin hot, message me and we'll hook up!!

Boiis only.?

What you want to hear is "All of the above."!

Boiis only.?

Hunny are you that despret or you just doing it for a friend!!??? LOL =P

Boiis only.?

Do you really think this question makes sense?

Let me demonstrate.

A woman with big boobs, short light brown hair, straight teeth, small waist, blue eyes. Is she sexy? Pretty? Maybe. But, now actually look at her picture: http://www.3gz.com/nb3/uploads/ugly.jpg

See why a description of features does NOT make any sense at all when you're trying to figure out if someone's attractive?

Boiis only.?

You can have all of those things and still look ugly as sin.

Boiis only.?

Um...well it all sounds great....so what's the catch?

I.M. me? I would like to know more!

Boiis only.?

all of the above definetly

Boiis only.?

Of course guys will consider you if you describe yourself that way (bigish boobs, good size butt). Are you trying to be arrogant or something? Also your slang is annoying...it's boys.

Boiis only.?

HOT baby - HHHOTTTT! (-tongue on floor Hot!)

Do Blonde and Redhead Men have a hard time?

I was talking to a friend of mine and he feels that being a blonde hair blue eyed male he is looked down on in American society. He said that in society the tall, dark and handsome thing is so ingrained in peoples head that woman dont find blondes or redheads sexy. I pointed out acters like Brad Pitt and Matthew McConaughy but he feels that those are the exceptions. He feels normally blonde men are portrayed as weak, insecure and arrogant. I have black hair brown eyes and darker skin so I wasnt able to put myself in his shoes, but what does everyone else think. Is this just another image that society and the media force upon people, much the way it has forced that blonde woman are beautiful for many years??

Do Blonde and Redhead Men have a hard time?

As a woman I don't care what hair colour someone has, it is more about their personality. That being said though, research has proven that we are attracted to partners with similar genetics as ourselves, so if I have brown hair then I am more attracted to men with brown hair etc. But with hair dye who knows if that is still accurate these days? Also, if someone is attractive they are attractive, no ones cares what the hair colour is.

Do Blonde and Redhead Men have a hard time?

It's all in the eyes of the beholders.

Do Blonde and Redhead Men have a hard time?

Not really. Although I'm reddish brown.

Do Blonde and Redhead Men have a hard time?

i don't think the hair color matters.

Do Blonde and Redhead Men have a hard time?

Not for me, at least. I love blondes and redheads. I married a blonde man with blue eyes because I think he's gorgeous. (Well, thats not the only reason I married him, but you know what I mean. lol)

Do Blonde and Redhead Men have a hard time?

doesnt matter what hair eyes colour he has.. im sure hes attractive.. for me personally i stick to tanner men coz i myself am tan ..

Most embarassing moment EVER! How would you feel?

I am in the process of getting a job and it is mandatory that I have a phone, where I can be reached at all times. I have a house phone, but no cell phone, so my friend let me use his for a few weeks, due to the fact that the only people who call him are his parents that he lives with.

I have a friend with benefits and I guess he was feeling a little randy and asked me to send him a few sexy photos of myself. I sent him some pictures of me wearing nothing but a hair tie (using my friends phone) and after I sent the pictures, I deleted them out of the sent messages file.

Today my friend came over and we went out to pick a few things up from the store. Before I got out of the car he was like, "I need to use my phone to make a call for a minute". I gave him the phone and left, and when I returned he looked at me and was like "Nice pictures!" I was like "What?" and he said "You have a really nice body", while smiling. The whole drive home was silent and awkward. How would you feel? = (

Most embarassing moment EVER! How would you feel?

that's sad sorry to hear that what u need to do is just chill. u shouldn't of had taken the pics on his phone in the 1st place OK that's Ur fault OK.

Most embarassing moment EVER! How would you feel?

wow embarassing. i would be freaked out... or maybe it depends... i could be calm in that situation. turn it into a joke. laugh about it so he knows ur ok with it, evn though you might not be.

Costume Poll for 2 "Girls"?

A few of my friends and I are going to be able to pick Halloween costumes for 2 guys. They were saying some things about women in a sociology class they shouldn't have so we want to make this a very memorable Halloween for them. They're both slight and one of them has great long blonde hair I'm dying to get my hands on. We got some ideas on Yahoo Answers for Halloween Costumes, but we got more great ideas than we expected so we thought we'd let you narrow down the nominees. We want this to be embarrassing and memorable. We want a theme for the 2 costumes, but we don't intend to let them know about each other until the party. Which nominee would you pick?

1. Original Daisy Duke/ Jessica Simpson Daisy Duke

2. I Dream of Jeanie/ Bewitched

3. Britney/ Cristina

4. Nicole/ Paris

5. Batgirl/Catwoman

6. Wilma/ Betty

7. Ginger/ Mary Ann

8. Aly/ AJ

9. Hillary %26amp; Haylie Duff

10. Jessica %26amp; Ashlee Simpson

11. Sexy School Teacher %26amp; Sexy School Girl

Costume Poll for 2 "Girls"?

I like the Original Daisy Duke/ Jessica Simpson Daisy Duke Idea best!! And HELL no to the Hilary %26amp; Haylie Duff Idea, Hate them!

Costume Poll for 2 "Girls"?

4. Nicole/Paris

or

10. Jessica and Ashlee Simpson

Costume Poll for 2 "Girls"?

Those are all good but most of them look so much alike it would be really tough to tell who's who...so I would suggest doing opposites like Dolly Pardon and Minnie Pearl (if you even know who they are :) or maybe Cher and Barbra Streisand...all of them have so many characteristics you could really play up so others could identify them....so that's my idea - do opposites!!!

Costume Poll for 2 "Girls"?

11 that makes the most sense, the rest are all very typical and overdone.

Costume Poll for 2 "Girls"?

1 would be hilarious lol

Costume Poll for 2 "Girls"?

hilary and haylie duff because that would be the most embarrassing!

or Original Daisy Duke and Jessica Simpson Daisy Duke

Costume Poll for 2 "Girls"?

What about Anna Nicole twins?? LOL

Costume Poll for 2 "Girls"?

5 or 8 that would be funny

Things that can make you look pretty?

ok i am pretty an sexy accordin to some guys but i only look when i comb my hair in a certain way or wear certain clothes. but even when i do that i still dont look pretty enough. can u plz help by tellin me what else i can do to make my face look 'pretty'. i mean apart from losing weight

Things that can make you look pretty?

natural looking tanned skin...really nicely done eye makeup like the first person said mascara and lip gloss are a must.

White teeth, use Crest White Strips, they really work.

Thats pretty much it, A Cute haircut that you love and looks amazing on you won't hurt either.

Things that can make you look pretty?

Um skinny jeans, lipgloss, %26amp; mascrara. That's about it.. I don't need much to make me pretty. Natural beauty %26lt;3 is the way to be!

Things that can make you look pretty?

make-up, color your hair

Things that can make you look pretty?

were brozer or go tanning not to look orange but just to give you some color. go about 2 times a week try a new hair cut put on eyeliner and mascara. try getting a perm if your hair is longer than your shoulders.

also she is right white teeth always make a person look attractive

Things that can make you look pretty?

Learning how to apply make-up can really make all the difference. I can't give you any tips, because I don't know what you look like, but go to a MAC makeup counter and see what advice you can get!

Ladies? hehe thx?

hi ladies, dis is hair section i kno soz, but there is lots of women here!, wat is ur opinion of this?ithought id get a good response, thanks.

do u think dis girl is interested in me? i am interested in her...

- i was helping her move something other day and she said something like 'cmon sexy'

-she brushed past me closer than usual, looked back it was her,and again the other day i felt someone brush past kinda felt my BOTTOM got touched big time, turned around and she was racing off...

-she twirled her hair for a couple of seconds while talking to me other day

-she has touched me on the arm several times

-she walked past me and for no reason grabbed and held my wrist then walked off

-i was talking to her the other day,got confused with wot she said,looked at her,she looked at me and laughed and touched me on the arm

-walked past her other day + she looked at my face then her eyes lowered,although not much to look at, as i ad a long apron on

?

These arent accidents?thx

Ladies? hehe thx?

of course she does! you need to make your move... ask her out!

Ladies? hehe thx?

nope by this i think that she likes you....next time just respond to her touch..keep her there..see what she does...good luck!

Ladies? hehe thx?

Yea baby, she wants you, didn't need to waste 5 points to ask that question.