Frustrated with my wife?

I am frustrated with my wife in sex life.

She doesnt respect my whims and fantacies but want a straight sex. I love to enjoy her body and also some romance when we dont do sex.

I love her to be with clean, hairless body. I say no to hair in amrpits, hair between legs, hair on tummy or hair on thighs and legs.

I wanted her to have bath before sex.

I also wanted her wear sexy outfits with variety like oneday with only shirt, one day in a mini-skirt, one other day in a tight pant showing all curves of her bum. She simply comes in nighty.

I cant say this can be a reason for divorce but my unhappiness increases day by day.

Any clue on how to deal this?

Frustrated with my wife?

STOP controlling her with all YOUR wants and ask her what she WANTS!

Frustrated with my wife?

You seem to be making a lot of demands on your wife. You should get a rubber doll. They are hairless and you can dress it as you please.

Frustrated with my wife?

Dont be so demanding to her. If she feels sexy in whatever she is wearing or doing then that IS sexy. If she feels like you keep pressuring her then maybe she will leave you instead one day.

Frustrated with my wife?

Help her get dressed the way you want.

Frustrated with my wife?

Gee, haven't you ever taken the time to see what it is she wants to do and act out her fantasy for her?

Frustrated with my wife?

She is probably just very modest or insecure about her body. I think if you are patient with her and start very slowly maybe with one thing that she will agree to she can get used to being more open to the things that you want. Whatever you do ---don't insult her appearance because this will only make the problem worse.

Frustrated with my wife?

What are YOU doing to make your wife happy?

Why should she fulfill some of your fantasies if you aren't doing anything special for her?

You can't ignore someone all day, or treat them like crap, and then expect them to fulfill your fantasies that night.

Think about what YOU are bringing to the situation. It takes TWO remember.

Frustrated with my wife?

Have you ask her, what she wants, you sound like you only think on your desires.

Frustrated with my wife?

what do you do for her?

i have seen nothing here but your wants and desires, marriage is a two way street.

maybe she wants and needs a little romance. you know romance is not about sex, it is about love and caring, knowing the other's desires.

Advice, learn about her innermost desires, respect her inhibitions, and her realistic desires, get your desires to a real level.

Does she tell you how to groom your hair, how to shave your face, or genitals. does she dress you in a speedo or similarly stupid garment.

You don't own her, and visa versa. Communicate do not make demands.

Frustrated with my wife?

Now I dont agree with your sexy outfits thing..thats asking alot, because she has to feel like a sex kitten to dress like one. But I do agree with the bath thing and keeping the hair off the body , thats just plain kinda nasty.

Frustrated with my wife?

give her a break, if you would make her feel sexy than she would want to show it to you, but telling her what to do...nah nah...

Frustrated with my wife?

Are you serious? If my husband were this demanding, I wouldn't want to have sex with him either. How about a little respect for your wife? Where is the spontaneity? Where is the romance? That might be a turn on for her. She might would even give in to some of your requests. key word - MIGHT! The question is "How should she deal with you? She is a human being, not a sex toy. You can get that somewhere else.

Frustrated with my wife?

You are frustrated. But do you even know if your wife is? I can tell that you are really demanding, and these things are all of what you want, but have you ever thought about having balance in the relationship? She is already your wife. You are bonded by marriage, and that is a big thing. It isn't about sexual passion and wild sex acts to be fruitful, it's about respect, love, and commitment. The sexual aspect in marriage is important, but it requires both of your opinions, desires, and needs. She may just be as frustrated as you are when it comes to that when you keep on demanding these things. Start with communication. It is essential in every relationship. Don't just talk, listen. Don't just demand, request. You say she doesn't respect your whims and fantasies, but do you respect hers? Remember that being a couple means having it all two-way. Give and take relationship. If things don't work out with talking it out with her, you should also increase your awareness of yourself, and not just the situation.

Frustrated with my wife?

she is probably as unhappy as u are, sounds like theres nothing going on between u. people should marry compatible mates.

Frustrated with my wife?

maybe if you put half as much effort into pleasing her and fullfilling some of her wants as you do with thinking of how she can please you then maybe she would be more willing to try some of the things you suggest....