I want my husband to want me more?

me and my husband have been married for a little over a year, and the past couple months have been so hard for us. but i think its harder on me becausei never hear i love you unless im crying and i never have much attention from him he is always on myspace talking to his friends and i just sit here with our son, sometimes i talk to him and he doesnt even talk back, but when i ask him if we are ok he says yeah and that he loves me, but i just dont feel it. he gets upset when we dont have sex but how am i supposed to do that if i dont feel sexy, i tried the other day to look so good, i did my hair pretty and i got kinda dressed up and he didnt say anything, maybe im overexagerating, but i just wanna know what i should do to turn him on ang get him off the computer. plz tell me what yall think

I want my husband to want me more?

It sounds like your husband has begun to take you for granted. Having a child will take some of the romance/fun out of the marriage but he should still make an effort to SHOW you that he loves you.

Sit him down, when your son is asleep, turn off the TV/computer and tell him how you feel. Let him know that you aren't feeling sexy or appreciated/loved.

If he wants sex, he needs to get off the computer, help out around the house and put some romance back into your relationship!

I want my husband to want me more?

I think you sound young and he probably hasn't grown up yet. Accept that he does love you and thinks you're sexy even if he doesn't show it in ways you think he should.

I want my husband to want me more?

You guys are probably pretty young. Maybe he's just as mature as you. It's no excuse though. He needs to man up and treat you like you are special because as his wife and the mother of his child, you are. He needs to grow up. Would it help to make some time for just the two of you - say a date night where you get someone to watch baby and do something together - dinner or a movie or a drive.. He's going to have to get the message sooner or later because it will cause you to resent him later.

I want my husband to want me more?

If you want him turned on take your clothes off and grab hi hand and lead him away from the myspace!!

I want my husband to want me more?

This seems to be some very contagious disease... only for the last one hour there have been 3 questions like yours. I'd give you the same advice I gave to them. Trying to do something nice/interesting/making him feel special/ect would just waste your time and leave you disappointed. Go out and meet with ppl (I assume he can take care of the kid from time to time). When he sees you have things going on he would wanna be part of them (or in other word make him jealous). Be careful not to go overboard (don't cheat).

My personal experience tells me this is not a permanent solution, but it is more lasting than "having a conversation" or giving him treats all the time.

Best of luck

I want my husband to want me more?

Have you given him butt sex yet? That is the key to a mans heart now days. Let him do that and he will want you more. Problem solved. I can't tell by your pic but if you are fat you need to lose the weight. That will help as well. If you are not fat then the butt sex will be just what the doctor ordered.

I want my husband to want me more?

Comments about butt sex are tacky...unfortunately brings up a good pointer. Trying new things is always a good idea to spice up your marriage. It sounds like your problem lies a little deeper than that, though.

I will tell you, in my honest opinion, if that were my husband I'd give two turds about whether he got turned on by me under those circumstances, he'd be lucky if I let him kiss my bum every once in a while! What's his problem, dear? Does he have a job, or is this all he does during the day?

If you want your man off the computer, tell him to get off the computer-if he doesn't do it, that speaks volumes about his commitment to maintaining a healthy relationship with you, eh? You not only need to feel loved and wanted, but deserve a little help with your little guy, too. All else fails, you can always send him a computer virus to buy a little time with him :) Good luck!

I want my husband to want me more?

don't let your life revole around him do stuff you want to do you and your baby go hang out with your friends read join a club there are things you and your kid can do and once you start doing the things you like he will take notice of you more