21, never had a date, and have no idea why.?

I am a 21-year-old university student. I talk with a lot of guys and have a lot of male friends, though none of them could be considered close friends. They always seem to go out of their way to talk to me but never ask me out. I'm fairly attractive (my parents' clients have told them that I was "very beautiful"), have a nice figure, wear sexy, feminine clothes and always try and look my best. Guys compliment my outfits, jewelry and hair too, which I find odd. I'm pretty confident and a bit of a flirt, I will admit. Guys laugh at my jokes and tell me that I'm smart. It makes me wonder what I'm doing wrong when other girls get dates and find boyfriends and I don't and I've actually never had a boyfriend or a date. It's not like I'm sitting around weeping, waiting for some Prince Charming to show up or anything but I'd kind of like to know. I don't have any close friends, which doesn't bother me very much, could this be an impediment?

21, never had a date, and have no idea why.?

Maybe your male friends are gay. Sounds like you need a real man friend like me Uh Uh wink wink.......No i'm just kidding im only 14 : (

21, never had a date, and have no idea why.?

It is ok, maybe it's for the best

21, never had a date, and have no idea why.?

would you settle for an ugly frog? I'm available.

21, never had a date, and have no idea why.?

Try getting close friends to make you feel better. Some times they can get you a date too Good Luck!

21, never had a date, and have no idea why.?

you need to ask your guy friends this, as weird as it sounds....you dont sound like a freak you dont have explain yourself haha....start hangin with a lot more guys, expose yourself to more places...you will find someone you are attracted to, maybe the close friends does effect they may think you are not easy to get close to

21, never had a date, and have no idea why.?

Some guy will come along and ask you out .

I'll be a friend to You if you would like.

Take Care and Have Fun

21, never had a date, and have no idea why.?

Try asking them out, and don't try too hard to get them to notice you. Just relax when you are around them and take things slowly. Also, don't be too intemidating. If a guy looks across the room at you, and thinks he doesn't have a chance cause you seem intemidating, he won't ask you out. Just smile, relax and have fun. (also try going out in just jeans and a tee shirt, it shows your comfortable and guys will feel comfortable talking to you!

21, never had a date, and have no idea why.?

Well mabe they only see u as friends, dont worry though its not very uncommon though adn ull prob find someone soon until then i think that u should just focus on ur carrer =]

21, never had a date, and have no idea why.?

Cybele, thanks for being honest. It's hard to come out and say, "Yes, I'm pretty," without feeling kind of arrogant, but I know how you feel. This is what I've discovered: Since I'm attractive and seem to have it all together, guys have admitted that they figure I must already have a boyfriend, or that they're out of my league. Rather than face obvious rejection, they don't ask me out. UGH! So I've discovered that I have to make the first move and ask a guy out. When I do, they're always like, "I can't believe you don't already have a boyfriend. I'm so glad you asked me out, cause I never would have assumed you were single."

So go for it, girl! And don't worry about being rejected, yourself. It's worth it if you finally find the right guy!

21, never had a date, and have no idea why.?

It sounds like you've got yourself pretty well together.There are no set rules or standards about when a person starts to date, or that they have to. When you're ready you'll know.

21, never had a date, and have no idea why.?

It could just not be your time, and there is nothing wrong with that.

Just keep going through life the way you are, and take guys as they come. Dating is not such a big deal for you to care about.

For what its worth, you seem like a very dateable woman. From what you say you are attractive and outgoing, and you don't very much care what others think of you (for some guys admittedly thats a turn off, but I always liked it.)

Why not try asking guys out yourself?

Although, like I said, it is best to just take life as it comes and don't worry about stuff like that: things work out for the best in the end.

21, never had a date, and have no idea why.?

It could just be that guys are intimidated... not to sound rude or anything but it might be that or maybe just that the guys that are interested think of you as a friend and wouldn't want to ruin that.. 21 and never had a date is no big deal. At so young you are still figuring things out and getting to know yourself. Things happen when they are supposed to for a reason, until then enjoy life, you seem to be doing pretty good so far.

21, never had a date, and have no idea why.?

Have a close friends first before seeking for your 'Prince Charming'...=')

And by the way, some guys like 'simple' (but fashionable of corz) than being too sexy, daring or somethin' like those...

21, never had a date, and have no idea why.?

There could be several reasons why and pocably many acting at one time. I think that you have yourself a problem going from flirting to more, because you say your a flirt but never a girlfriend. Now if you are fairly beautiful and are flirting with guys that are at the lower end of your spectrum of beauty, then maybe they don't think they have a chance. If you don't want to make them think they have a chance then you must give them reason as to why they should think they have a shot. Just because you flirt with guys doesn't mean they think you are doing anything other then wanting sex or pocably friendship.

Show them that you feel more for them then just a sexual attraction.

21, never had a date, and have no idea why.?

He will come soon