Do you think i should divorce him?

i am feeling tired of being married to my husband sometimes i think about a divorce acturally ever day. he helps me with my life by helping me study and things like that but as for relationship he isnt funny or fun he isnt sexy anymore. he doesnt work out anymore or take care of him self or his teeth or his hair. i asked him today if he would go out with me to tgi fridays for a lousy mud slide and he said no. so we went home and i said i am leaving to go to tgi fridays to get a mud slide. he got jealouse then he said he would go. i said no. you dont want to have fun anymore. it to thepointwhere i dont want to kiss him or anything and he wants sex but he doesnt want to do things to lite my fire. but then if we have freinds over he will have some drinks and have fun. but just us its on the couch he goes or maybe a walk or something. i ask him to have sex in different positions he wont do it he wont try new things but he wants me to give it up.

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Blah, blah, blah.

I'd be afraid to be alone in the world with your (lack of) common sense.

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Why are you still together...you havent mentioned one thing good about him_

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I think its to the point where it needs to be done. you arent having fun and he isnt either. get it over with and go have some fun to make up for lost time.

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try counseling first. sounds like you need someone to help you guys talk about the issues- bring them out to the surface. you may see them, but he may not plus he may have other issues you don't know

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sure it would be pretty funny to watch his face

"uh baby im sorry im sorry"

"huh get away from me you freak"

"uh huh huh huh waaaa"

thats funny to watch

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Yep, divorce his ***.

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I would not divorce him yet i would tell him you have to talk and be serious about everything you just posted make him see his time is limited and that you will divorce him if things do not get better and this should make him see that you are serious and things really do need to change.

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I think the person you should be talking to is your husband. It seems like your relationship is a bit stale, and if you want to improve it, you need to make sure he understands what you want and what you need. Be the one to make his day by surprising him with something special.

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Kim you need to have a talk with your hubby and you also need to think seriously about what it is you expect from your husband. sounds like you two are on the verge of having some serious problems so you better start talking to each other.

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Bless your heart.... marriage is sooo hard. This may seem like a silly answer to some, but Get right with God- I'm serious- Marriage takes 3! Give God a chance to work before you let him go.. you just never know.....

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I don't think you should give up yet. Sounds like you both have forgotten how to have fun with each other.

this is the best tape ever...get it..."light his fire" by dr. ellen kreidman..she talks about how things you will do will autjmatically make him respond.

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Please, you shouldn't be asking such a massive question to anonymous people on a website. Do whatever you think is best but think about how you'd feel if a guy divorced you for losing your looks.

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dont let a man change you if he wants to old and out of date that is him you keep having fun life is just to short and you should go places make sure you let him know you are boring and i am going to have fun without you .leaving maybe a little harsh but you need to tell him you are bored and when you are bored you look for entertainment else were ... but no matter what you will be happy ....... just show him you are not joking at all

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Sounds like you 2 need a good talk...dont take the easy way out and divorce, work it out, thats what marriage is about, think of WHY you married him in the first place, there must have been a reason. Try seeking professional help for the 2 of you..just dont give up yet girl, hang in there and get to the root of this problem before it get's worse..if he doesn't want too talk or do anything about it than he is obvisouly bored or has a bigger problem, than maybe consider divorce..after you have tried EVERYTHING. Good Luck

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Talk to him....get your point accross how you feel, and dont leave anything out....divorce is not a solution....God bless

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you need to get reallllly serious, sit down and have a talk. Does he know you want a divorce? If he doesn't you should tell him. Try not to yell or start world war three, just talk, that's the best way to get a man to confess. Just straight up ask him why he doesn't love you as much anymore. If he says he still loves you, ask him why he never wants to have fun. REMEMBER ONLY TALK, NO SCREAMING OR GOING PSYCHO

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Ah...the work of a woman is never done. Men unravel easily in marriage, especially when married to a really good woman. You know he is in there somewhere because he does help you. Now you have to train him in the rest like personal hygeine. It would embarass you to know how many women still have not taught their husbands about toilet hinges.

You might want to consider having a communications facilitator - pastor or counselor. I'm a pastor and counselor and have used a counselor off and on throughout my married life.

Sex is about giving pleasure, not taking it just for yourself. Teach him with the carrot/stick approach.

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Ask him if he really loves you. Ask him if he is going to change his lousy attitude. TEll him that your tired of being married to him and you dont know anyone that would enjoy living the rest of their lives with him. It sounds like you are bein put through alot of stress if you think he is causing this stress get a divorce he desrves it.

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i had the same issue as you. loOK if you are not happy and you have tried every thing possible to try to make life better in your marriage, then yes, i would say divorce, i waited until it got to where he started drinking and doing drugs, i ended up with a broken back and 5 operations later and i cant ever work again.. not trying to scare you, but think about it ok? how long are you willing to stay unhappy? is he worth the sacrifice ?

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I have gone through that too. Don't give up on your husband. It will get better you just have to work through it. I know your feeling that way right now, but after ya'll split you will miss him so much. I tried to leave my husband and I am so glad I didn't because I love him so much. We are having some difficulties now, but I love him and I remember why we got married and thats what you need to think about. You will get past it give it time. Good luck and never give up.

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wow that the problem you got with your husband sweetie you are one of the luckiest woman around,cause people has other problem worst than that.at least you know he aint looking out.woman hold your man and dont let him go.invite him in the tub with you.and make your move

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It sounds like you dont ever talk about anything important to the two of you. Both of you are bored and you need to talk. Get help if you really want to try and save your marriage. Dont just quit just because you want to. It also sounds like he is depressed about something and you are not seeing that because you just want to have fun. You both need help and I suggest you look for it.

Marriage is a job and needs to be worked on all the time.

Talk to him.

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Don't feel bad about the way you are feeling! I was in a relationship like that. He didn't take care of himself and we did nothing fun. He also stopped taking care of himself. There is just so much crap a person can take. Also the fact that men are selfish almost 100 % of the time it makes it even more difficult.

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Let's try a little sarcasm here...SURE, DIVORCE HIM, HE'S A BUM. THAT WHOLE "TIL DEATH DO WE PART" THING THAT YOU SAID IN FRONT OF GOD, FRIENDS AND FAMILY WAS ONLY A SUGGESTION, NOT A COMMITMENT! Then you can find a new guy that will have "FUN" with you. And when someone needs to wash the dishes or take care of the kids or pay the bills, maybe your new husband will say, "You do it! I wanna have fun!" And then you can divorce him, cause you need someone who will help you wash the dishes and take care of the kids or pay the bills. Is any of this sinking in?

Here's a real idea...tell him that you think you want a divorce. (1) it will tell you whether you, yourself, really want a divorce or just like to post questions on the internet. Because saying the word divorce to your spouse AIN'T EASY! (2) He might say, ME TOO! And then you'll both know that there is a better place for both of you too be! (3) The word "Divorce" might shock him enough that he pulls his head out of his *** long enough to see what he is doing to his wife and his marriage.

Marriage is WORK! So, GOOD LUCK, cause you'll need it!

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I have been having some similar problems in my marriage, but I still love him so we are working things out. There must have been some good things in the beginning, things about him that you loved. Maybe you 2 just need some help getting back there again. It's worth at least a try isn't it.

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Marriage isn't about the same man you married, it is about the partnership that the two of you have now. I know that if you look really hard beneath the things that you say are bothering you about him, that the man you love is still there. Have you changed since you got married. Divorce is a serious thing and if you can truly say that marriage is nothing but fun and games and mudslides then I say divorce him and stop living a lie, but if you really understand the meaning of marriage then stay married but let him know that things have to change with his Hygiene habits and his appearance. Remember the day you got married he was all nice and neat and he needs to be reminded that you didn't marry a slob. And if he chooses to be the slob then he is answering your question for you. Been married and divorced and believe me with lots of hard work marriage is worth it but it takes to to make it happen.

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You are DEFINETLY too good for him! I bet there's tons of guys pounding on your door, have fun!!!! You go! Hot babe, goddess you! ;-8 {kiss}

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It's called a rut, the blahs, the routine, whatever. I don't know what's more shocking, that you are actually thinking divorce or that so many people are saying leave this guy.

Instead of dealing with circumstances, try telling him how you feel. Be honest. And don't tell him that you feel "like" something; tell him your actual feelings. Then maybe he will hear how bored and pained you are and wake up.

Maybe something's going on with him and he's totally stressed...or worse yet, he senses your dissatisfaction, and not knowing what to do, is just standing pat to see what you're going to do. I know that's not a great thing to think, but it could be true.

You're going to have to actually communicate with him, I've never met a mind reader yet, much less a male who can read a female's mind (I'd pay a million$ to have that trick!). Instead of telling him what you want to do, tell him how this current situation makes you feel. It can do wonders.

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sounds like it is time for you to get a different man who better fits your interests

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1. Talk to your husband seriously

2. Try to overcome all the problems you discover during your talks.

3. If you have children, they have right to both parents, scrifice some wishes for them.

4. One of the answers tells you, It takes 3 for a marriage (meaning man, woman and God). Thats correct. Sit to talk as its a meeting of three. Give God a chance too.

5. I paray and wish you good luck.

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Ok first of all he does not need to b drinking that crud ok! second snap him up make him freshen up! it is so gross that he does not brush he teeth or anything ok! its also rel bad when he only loves you when he gets drunk! thats terrible you need god u need to pray! that man is not a good father figure,sorry but i do not want my future children to ever see his or her father drunk ever! i`m so sorry but if he dosn`t get god and if he dosn`t shape up i wuld leave him to find a godly husbend that wuld love me and teach me about Jesus and show that he really loves me! i wuld leave that house if he dosn`t straten up take him to a doctor and u listen and watch wut they say he will die @ a young age if he does not stop the drinking