Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

I have been with my current bf for about 2 years and I know he does care about me...but for the passed year he's become extremely obsessed with how I look. I feel like our relationship is almost based on it. I have to be tan all the time...I have to work out everyday (He gets mad if I skip a day)...I have to dress sexy all the time...wear my make up the way he likes it...do my hair the way he likes it...and always have my nails and toenails painted. On days I just wear a sweatshirt, he doesn't seem as happy with me or as "into" me. Also, he seems to really like it when other guys check me out/hit on me. The other day, he caught his best friend sending pictures of me from my bf's cell phone to his own (rather revealing pictures). And he seemed to actually enjoy the thought of it. Whenever guys leave comments on my facebook about how "hot I am," he enjoys it and feels complimented. Not that I'm not flattered, but shouldn't a guy NOT want other guys hitting on his gf? .....

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

hes a loser you are too if you dont dump him soon

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

Please dump him. You don't need that crap!

;o) Love who YOU are!

That is just crazy of him..

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

twat he is

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

thats a dangerous relationship........... get out while you can

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

Then he really does not like you for you now does he? Get a new boyfriend.

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

wife swap

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

Find a man that appreciates your intelligence and you beauty. Ask yourself if you really want to be with this man that watched your figure and controls you for the rest of your life.

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

It sounds like he's rather possessive.I think you need to be looking for a new boyfriend.

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

Just be who you want to be ... not what he wants you to be.

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

Your boyfriend is a control freak and using you like a trophy.

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

Ok, I'm sorry to be so blunt, but the guys is a JERK! You need to seriously reevaulate why you're together. No relationship should ever be based on how good you look.

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

that just isnt right AT ALL

you need to get rid of this boy and find a boy that will value you for you regardless of how you wear your hair

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

You need to get rid of him. If he truly loved you for who you are than he wouldn't try so hard to change you. Get him a Barbie Doll, that sounds like what he wants.

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

Wow .. I don't know how you can stand it.

If any guy told me how to dress and look, it'd be over before he knew it.

I'd dump him

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

RUN RUN RUN as fast as you can

he is a control freak

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

Get a new man! He is a control freak who is probably going to start asking you to bang guys while he watches.

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

It's one thing to be proud of how your girl looks, but this guy is over board. If you are 119lbs you don't need to lose a thing except your boyfriend

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

I mean that is a certain line he shouldn't cross but. If a man cares about you he wants to make sure his girl looks good. So it actually makes me feel good when my fiance points out my flaws cause I can then change it and feel happy. As for him getting happy when other guys compliment you. For me it's not normal a guy should want to protect you and keep you for himself. But I don't how old you guys are so it could be a teen thing. If it continues just speak to him.

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

tell him you dress and look the way you want to, and if he don't like it then he can kiss your *** good by !

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

No this is not right! God, he is totally controlling you. I cant believe how shallow this guy is, i understand that he wants you to look nice but he has overstepped the mark. Put your foot down and get some control back.

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

It is not right. I love my gf and if another dude looks at her. I think if that is all fine I don't go about showing her off as if she truly was a trophy. And that is what I see here. You are no longer her girlfriend but a trophy. If he cannot see you as you want to be then he does not have the right to be with you.

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

What your boyfriend is doing to you isn't right, he is trying to control you and it sounds as if it is working. The more you allow him to do this, the worse it will get.

It also sounds like you are just a trophy to him. He doesn't care what you think, or how you feel, just how you look and what others think of you. My question to you is why are you still with this guy?

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

My feelings on this one depend on how old you are, which you don't say. If you are both 18, I wouldn't worry as much as if you were 40. This may just be standard immaturity on his part.

I would say something to him, though. The bottom line is that when two people love and respect each other, they won't engage in things that hurts the other one.

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

it isn't right he should like you for the way you arre ur not his personal barbie doll dump his ***

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

This guy has problems. My guy likes it when other people find me attractive but he certainly doesn't want them to see any provocative pictures of me or to come hit on me. That's plain weird.

Start dressing and looking the way YOU want to look. See how he reacts. If he's less attracted to you then I hate to tell you this, he's not into you but he's into his perfect vision of you. He's supposed to love you for who you are, not for who he wants you to be.

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

Your his trophy and he thinks you "belong" to him....

I'd put a stop to it now......Obssesive guys are dangerous.

He is obviously proud to be with you, But you need to draw the line.

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

it isn't a guy thing. he is trying to control you, mold you into something that you probably are not. his being okay with other guys looking at you is a bit weird at best. seems like he is more interested in himself, and how he is viewed, than he is into you and your feelings. stand back a bit, be yourself. don't let others control you.

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

Don't ever change yourself for someone else!!!

It sounds like he wants you as his trophy. For his own ego stroke. That is extremely unhealthy and I can't imagine you could ever be happy in a relationship like this. You need to be you. Be real. And real people wear sheatshirts some days. I think it's time you make him love you for you and not your looks. Talk to him. Tell him how you feel. And if he really cares about you he will love you regardless.

BTW we all get old someday. What is he going to do then?

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

well i think the reason he likes it when other guys say your hot and check you out and all that is because then he can be like ya shes all mine. i think that you sound like your healthy and yo shouldnt lose n e wait for him. good luck

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

don't allow yourself to get caught in this trap. He will dominate and control your life..he is already trying to do that. Please think more of yourself...this guy is a looser...don't let him ruin your life! Trust me...you'll feel bad for a couple of weeks...and then your life will seem like the sun just started to shine!

Is this wrong of my boyfriend to say/do to me? I need your point of view...?

Don't let that loser control you.

Dump his sorry azz!