Appearance Or Culture & Education?

so I was sittin there with a guy friend, when this really sexy chick walked in.

she apparently spends a lotta time choosin what to wear, doin her hair %26amp; make-up.

really, a flawless model figure!

then as she sat at the table next to us %26amp; started talkin to her friend, I couldn't help but overhear the bad grammar, the incorrect pronounciation of words, %26amp; she was downright vulgar.

lets face it, she obviously didnt spend as much time trying to be the least bit cultured, or to correct her language into a somewhat "decent" form!

now Im not judging her.

but as I turned to my drooling friend to say "well, nothing is perfect",

I was hell surprized when he replied (he's a good looking, well brought up young man with an engineering degree)

"I'd date her right away if she'd agree!"

OH MY GOD!

have looks become SO important that guys would now compromize the educational/ cultural standards just to be with a "hottie"?

I wouldn't!

Guys, are you all like my friend?!

Girls, what do you think??

Thanks.

Appearance Or Culture %26amp; Education?

appearances can be deceiving. don't give your friend too bad of a time over this, he obviously felt comfortable enough around you to say something like that. but take it for what it's worth, i mean, he IS a guy right? men love hotties, that's the bottom line here and can you blame them? society supports this view in so many ways. unfortunate but true. some men will compromise their education/cultural standards for the quickie and so will some women. the important thing is....be yourself....you will be the one he takes home to meet momma. a real woman doesn't have to flaunt it, but she can if she wants to....some women feel the need for attention, but there's also a lot of men who prefer the wallflowers. oh, and another thing....why didn't your friend even ask hoochie chick on a date? because men are intimidated by beautiful women. add intellect and culture to the mix and you've got one mixed up scared man. they constantly to talk about chicks, but why don't they ever ask one out? ask your friend. but really, it's just macho talk, nothing serious.

Appearance Or Culture %26amp; Education?

honey the male species has no idea on how to think, because it is hard to do when one doesn't have a brain just a blank canvas full of air

Appearance Or Culture %26amp; Education?

You can not ignore physiacl attraction. But that wears away very soon. What remain are the essentials- culture, education etc.

Appearance Or Culture %26amp; Education?

the world is coming to an end.

Appearance Or Culture %26amp; Education?

Well,to guys, women apperance flash into our mind in the first place, other things like educational standard etc, will not be one of the main factors to change our mind that the women is hot. but if she's simply vulgar, be it she's a PhD holder or capable to converse like a host on a stage, sure she turns me off.

Educational/cultural standard, how we going to set the bar? In this 21st century global communication is so common, that we will meet different kinds of ppl who having a different educational background.If we would need to group the ppl with different kinds of educational background. Does it mean i can only marry/attached to a woman who are having the same brought up like me?Some ppl who doesn't command the language well enough(just like me), does it mean he/she didn't have a great personality to have a well brought up partner???

p/s:I did met some women who have good educational background,great speaking, but doesn't have a bit respect to the elder ppl. and it really make me feel how she was brought up. While now, I would rather find a woman, no need to be a degree holder, as long as she's kind and fillial to her parents. Even she's using bad grammar within our conversations,I know she will getting better and better as long as she never stop trying communicate with me.

Appearance Or Culture %26amp; Education?

Your mate is after one thing only.

Men have to pamper that deep instinct of power.

A uneducated chick is easy 'prey'. Easy to get into bed prey.

Average looking educated women are not prey they are intimidating, yet depending on the guy...totally attractive and equal. (Marriage material)

Men will hunt 'equals' down when they are ready to settle.

So sit back and watch the animal safari.